How To Be A Boss-Queen & Set A High Standard For Yourself

being a boss queen will require a lot of work, patience and Dedication.

who’s a boss queen?

A Boss-Qeen is a term used to refer to a woman who holds a powerful position and is in control. she’s hardworking, confident and well packaged.

how to become a boss-queen

1. love yourself

you can’t improve your life if you don’t learn to love yourself first. accept yourself for who & how you are. don’t let no one define you or make you feel bad about you. their opinions doesn’t really matter. what matters is how you see yourself. 

2. Invest in yourself

when you invest in yourself, it builds up your confidence. Invest in learning a skill and also looking good as a lady. invest in perfumes, take courses to improve yourself, purchase trending clothes that are perfect for your body shape. invest in skin care in order to keep your skin radiating and clean.

3. Be authentic (be an original)

Be authentic in everything you do. Do not try to copy others or act like someone else. just do you. 

4. Set rules for yourself & build boundaries

you should have a rule of how people to talk to you, when they see you and also how you communicate to them. I’m not saying you should just  go ghost and stop communicating with people. you should have a limit. You don’t have to tell them every step you take.. be a mystery.

setting rules brings about a high standard and also brings about respect. 

5. Stop being a people’s pleaser

Are you the kind of person that finds it hard to say no? well if you are, you better stop it. only say yes to things you really want to say yes to, and if you are not okay with something, say No. Stop trying to get everyone to like you. people tend to take advantage easily. 

6. Be trustworthy

Honor your commitments and keep to your words.. only make promises you know you will keep. 

7. Be clear on your values

know what you can tolerate and what you can’t tolerate. and make sure people around you know that as well. 

8. Be financially independent

Make sure you have something doing that keeps the money rolling in. you won’t have to be dependent on anyone. having your own money brings about a lot of financial freedom. you won’t have to tolerate rubbish because you depend on another to sponsor your need. being able to afford your basic needs and get bills paid is another confidence booster.

9. Stay healthy and fit.

Eat healthy and do exercises, yoga or pilates to keep your body & mind in good shape and keep you active.